Sadness overwhelms again.

I thought that I have gotten over the fact that the marriage of my close friends are on the rocks.

I have tried several ways and means to give as much help/guidance/assistance etc as far as I can stretch.

It hurts so much to see the crumpling of a marriage, especially with some one whom you are so close to, it felt you a part of you has also died along with the death of their marriage.

Am I being too busy body? hmmm....

Am I getting too emotionally attached to someone else's issues?

Well, there is also another little person whom I'm very attached to who is involved in the marriage, this person has no say to what he wants nor will be able to make a sound decision for himself (without being swayed by food or toys...).

So I'm mourning for the loss of the closeness with this family. The loss of more great moments with these folks. We've had so much fun together and its so hard to say goodbye to them.